STORY OF TIME

Years ago when they first met, she was a beautiful girl,
And he was the fastest boy, they ran in the fields, wrote the dreams, and built innocent hopes.
Time passed by, and they were away from each other's,
She grew up, and he grew up.
Like the previous days he was running, never wait to any one even her,
She was slow, and the only thing she did is searching.
All these years she was looking for him, on the other hand he always tried to avoid her.
She never makes a step farther until now she is looking for him,
Looking for the lost dreams and friends,
She is searching for happiness from her diaries and writings.
She decided to walk today, to figure out where is everybody.
So, she picks up the perfect dress, combs her hair, then draws the perfect smile on her face.
The journey starts with that song she used to hear in the past years,
"Those were the days my friends we thought they would never end, we sing, and dance forever and the day we lived the life we choose we find it never lose when we were young and sure to have our way"
The tears are rolling through her face, with thousands of questions, with no answers until the moment
Roads are too long, but she wants to walk, to find the lost life.
In a sudden, while she's thinking about her life, why everybody change, and why she must bury her dream before it’s born.
She meets him; the smile is drawn in her face, childish looks from her eyes into his.
Where are you? It had been years.
I was, searching for you, our memories returned to be my friend, everybody left, even you.
I did not leave, but you are slow, I tried to be your friend but you rejected this friendship.
I do not wait for anyone; I decided to leave you, when you decided to live in your diaries, memories, and past.
I cannot look behind me, but you must look forward.

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STORY OF TIME

Free Well

Free well???


“Free will is not the liberty to do whatever one likes, but the power of doing whatever one sees ought to be done, even in the very face of otherwise overwhelming impulse. There lies freedom, indeed.” Unknown

I think this quote must be our slogan, not because it’s creative, but because it’s rooted in our humanistic existence.

But as usual we have to question realities and theories. What crosses my mind is the validity of the social theory in learning for Albert Bandura.

The validity must be questioned due to the mentioned quote; we must not deal with humanistic theories as if it is infinite.

We live inside tides of changes, so we need new revolution in psychology with all the respect to exist ones.

According to this theory we learn by observing others specifically significant ones.
You may ask me why we have to question a theory according to a quote for unknown author?

Well, free will means we have the alternative, but we need the wisdom to choose due to social learning theory we learn this by observing others how they reach their chosen alternative!

But when all our Ideals lost the art of knowing that we have free will even! So how can we learn?

And here we can find the missed chain, in a time we can not see but uncertain leaders, stressed parents, scared youth, and innocent children.

What are we going to observe in such gloomy environment?!
Diminished internal motives for the sake of outsider stimulation to change.
Lost values; rationalizations for our absence, and billion of inferiority and superiority complexes.

Old generation lost the enthusiasm toward change, although they did not transfer the flag of leading to the younger, as a result the status qua is the safer alternative for a community rather than an individual.

At the end the quotes will be only a reality on a paper in someone’s eye in a time context, theories are individual creativity but not standard, So sure without a deep shake for our paralyzed minds the condition will stay still, and nothing will be observed and then to be learned.