further more selection law starts to take a place, in another words we choose what memories we want to store it in our memory systems, or we just want to transfer it to our unconscious!!!
but even supressed memories will be activated by different situation, either happen to us or others...
are we trying to hide things may present our weakness? or we afraid of our past? maybe this memories disturb our present or blurred our future vision???
but why we can not see the other face??
that behind each one of us is a full system of memories that let us able to deal with new situations....
yes, I still remeber in the age of 11th I was loner but I know this memory helped me to have better relations now...yes I may try to delete it although I know our memories live inside us....
we do not forget....we overcome
we do not bury our memories under the ground .....we try to accept it
at last we can not delete memories becuase our past is part of our inner self...