STRIVING & SUPERIORTY COMPLEX

We all wish to overcome difficulties, failures, disappointments, and many other traumas in the journey of life.

in order to overcome we search for that shining road that will be the appropriate exit for our soul injuries or our inferiority no matter what it is; as long as the person considers it as inferiority.
Actually maybe we have the predisposition to have exits in order to win ourselves instead of turning to be un living pictures


One of hundred ideas psychologists had discussed, but the fact they were not a pioneer in discussing such ideas, maybe pioneer in how they wrote it and brought it to life as the individual theory for Adler.
Yes, we always strive to be better than what we are now; we look for the chances that help us in compensating our inferiority inspite of its kind.

It seems to be as we have the passion to strive in order to keep ourselves alive through all the difficulties in our private lives, that no one can realize that behind the passionate striving there is something
Missing, part of our lives, and souls and we keep on searching to find the lost piece to the completion.

After year, maybe two, or maybe decade, we reach the target then what possibly will happen.

Two possibilities:

We either celebrate our achievement; kill the feeling of inferiority inside us after the long battle with this feeling, inviting all beloved people for what we have reached,

Or we pretend that we are better than everybody so we only see people from a tower no one is ready to be there to celebrate us.
here the striving go to a weird path , and here I must say Adler was and still pioneer in this idea , to say that in this situation we develop superiority complex.
After we know that, we are good and maybe the best in a domain, we only see the people from our own high tower
We cannot even enjoy our achievements.

Example: many PhD, teachers look at their students that they are nothing, so they talk to them as if they have no brains ignoring the fact that they don’t have the experience but they have the brains,
the creativity, but the supporting is missed.

any way if the tacks of the personal dream is humiliating others it returned to be nothing.
Life is not easy; it is a fact
There are dreams that may never be true
However; if the fate gives the dream the chance to be alive, it must hold inside it the love and white intentions other wise we must search for a new concept for the dream that fits with the un known intention.
After all, we will look for a new target to strive for all over again.

WHAT THE HELL.............................

GET OUT OF IT............................
that what my best friend said yesterday, and all that becuase nothing ...
anyway I realize that she can not be a friend and that wht hurts, does she aware of what she is doing ????????????????
GOD will bless her.